Anonymous Asked: I'm a gemini with a libra ascendent and moon. I'm really attracted to taurus boys, and I just don't get it! Is there any sort of hope for these kinds of matches?

There is a possibility that Taurus is your 7th House ruler (house of partnerships and marriage) seeing as how your Ascendant is in Libra, your descendant may be Aries, but your House ruler MIGHT be Taurus which could indicate why you’re very drawn to them. 

But don’t forget, our Mercury, Mars, Venus, Midheaven, South and North Nodes (and all the aspects in between) help indicate who we are attracted to, who we attract to us, and why :)

Either way, Taurus and Libra(your moon + rising ruler) share the planet of Venus and while this may not be the traditional “best” match, there is a lot of mutual interest and an affinity towards one another, as with most people who share planetary rulers. 

There is always hope! Don’t let the whole traditional “best” and “worst” matches get you down. Sometimes these pairs make very good long-term relationships because they learn that you need hard work and communication to make a relationship last. 

Anonymous Asked: How do you find your Eros and Psyche sign? D:

Until I make posts specifically about the Eros and Psyche, I am directing everyone HERE

It will provide a description for each placement and some general compatibility between the Eros and Psyche. 

Enjoy!

Anonymous Asked: I'm an aquarius with leo moon and this cutie I know is a leo guy with libra moon. His mars is aries and my mars in libra. And his venus is cancer and mines is in cap. Does anything explain why I wanna devour him all the time lol

Opposites certainly attract! Generally speaking, your placements are very harmonious, but with the addition of opposite planet placements and Sun signs, you two are drawn to each other quite strongly! This can be VERY good, or VERY intense! Most likely, a mixture of both, this would certainly be filled with chemistry and passion. 

xoxo

Anonymous Asked: I heard libra moons are magnetically attracted to leo moons, is that true?

Well, I am in that current Moon relationship, and the initial attraction was VERY magnetic!

Air and Fire Moons like this combination are typically very compatible. Leo Moon is inherently more emotionally connected than a Libra Moon and there could be conflict here during arguments and disagreements about affections and hashing it out. Leo often gets annoyed with Libra when it comes to seeing action from their partner and Libra may feel overwhelmed by Leo’s emotional abrasiveness. However, both appreciate each other and find balance in one another. There is a lot of attraction and sparks. 

Anonymous Asked: What should you wear on a first meeting with a pisces? What signs to look for to know everything's going on well (you know, that he's not bored or uninterested)?

Wear something tasteful and flattering, and probably not something so over-the-top. But a piece of clothing or jewelry that has a special story would be a good idea, as this Water sign will pick up on something like that. When you’re making a connection with a Pisces, you’ll know it. Pisces are not ones to hold back a smile or bottle their emotions of they’re feeling good things about a person. You will FEEL it. They’re great conversationalists and generally do well in social situations so make sure that you’re not just picking up on a friendly vibe. Personal questions, eye contact, and even touching are all really good signs! 

From experience, Pisces know how to lay on the charm and when they want to be around you, you’ll be able to pick up on the chemistry. 

Anonymous Asked: Would a an Aries with moon Taurus Venus aquarius be a picky person when it comes to relationships?

Most likely. Aquarian influence can indicate taking time to find someone just right before making the kind of comittment they want to. 

Anonymous Asked: (Genral) Rising sign compatibility?

Well, so much goes into compatibility that I really can’t do much to answer you except…

A Few Things to Note About Rising Sign Compatibility

1. No matter your Sun Sign, whatever your Rising sign is will attract others with the same element as your Rising sign, or others who possess that sign heavily in their chart

2. The opposite sign of your Ascendant, your Descendant is someone who will be a source of intense attraction, or a source of incredible balance and intrigue. Not every person you meet with their Sun sign in your Descendent will feel like this, but if someone with that sign enters your life, a bond will be formed, whether it’s always lasting or full of conflict, it depends, but will be memorable nontheless

3. People can often be unfairly judged by their Rising sign, so while first impressions may for the most part be correct, be careful before writing someone off, they may pleasantly surprise you!

Anonymous Asked: Is Taurus and Scorpio the most exciting and passionate pairing?

Well, as opposites go, they are pretty combustible! They are typically a hit or miss due to them being opposites AND both fixed signs, they EXUDE passion and chemistry, so in a sense, yes, they are a rather exciting pair. But exciting does not always equate to long-term. It could work, of course, but the Taurus/Scorpio couples I have seen typically end dramatically and with emotional scars. 

Anonymous Asked: Do scorpio women get bored easily in relationships? And do they quickly look for something more exciting?

While they aren’t typically bored in relationships, they will lose interest if their partner isn’t strong enough (having a backbone, holding their own, etc.), and they need their passions to be stimulated and awakened. An emotional and sexual connection is very important to Scorpio’s. They value loyalty and comittment, so they are not typically rovers unless they are NOT looking to be in a relationship. 

The easiest way to tell if a Scorpio woman has lost interest, is if she has stopped SHOWING an interest in YOU. If she isn’t asking you personal questions, trying to spend one-on-one time, and isn’t trying to connect physically, then it is important to make sure you are assessing the relationship to see what the issue is. 

Anonymous Asked: hello, this is my second time asking a question and i'm glad to hear that you are enjoying your time in japan! i have a little question regarding compatibility. i am a capricorn female, and i quite fancy a cancer male. if we were ever to get together, would the relationship be likely to work, and if so, why?~

Hi lovely! Yes, I am LOVING it here :)

Capricorn and Cancer make one of the strongest pair of opposites in the entire Zodiac because there is less clashing (but still maintains the intense chemistry of opposite signs) with mutual goals and interests. They can be somewhat similar in relationships and are slow-to-ignite people who truly excel in long term relationships that require responsibility and commitment. 

Of course, personal birth charts should be considered, but typically, a TOP match!

xoxo

Anonymous Asked: H-Hello~ I know you may not particularly care but... i really wanted to share this with you since you helped out my problem~ I'm the anon from ages ago who asked about why Libras and Capricorns weren't compatible.. ... ^//^ I'm dating my lovely Capricorn now... and I wouldn't have been as confident about it if not for your help. So, thank you very much!! <3<3

I absolutely DO care, love! That’s great that you’re dating someone who makes you happy, which is inspiring for everyone out there who thinks that just because their sun signs aren’t “typically” compatible that they shouldn’t give it a try. ALWAYS go for it, it could mean true happiness, and you never really know until you give it your 100%.

Thank you for this message, you’re lovely 

xoxo

Anonymous Asked: Hey there. Awesome blog. :) I have a question. What's the best match for a Scorpio-Sagittarius cusp (November 21) with a Scorpio Moon, Leo Rising and Venus and Mars in Sagittarius? If it helps, I'd like someone who can go on adventures with me, is very happy, open minded, sensitive, kind, and playful. I don't really care much about looks. I also want someone who can be as wierd as I am and we can both be wierd together and laugh about it. :D Thank you so much.

Hi love, thank you!

I would say Pisces, Sagittarius, Aries, and on the off chance, Aquarius! 

Happy early birthday!

xoxo

Anonymous Asked: hi! what can you say about someone who has sun, mercury AND mars at scorpio?! she is a capricorn rising, has a venus in libra and a moon in aquarius if it helps. i am a very typical sagittarius man and am in love with this woman. but she refuses to believe me?? why do you think she's like that? also how can i make her feel that i love her without doing the entire theatrical romancing? it just isn't my thing, tbh. is it the only way i can assure her? thanks!

Hi deary!

Hmmm. Interesting… well, I’d hate to jump to conclusions here, but she sounds very much influenced by all that Scorpio which can make her suspicious and cautious to enter a relationship without you having done nothing to deserve it! Her Venus in Libra can elude to a fickle behavior before entering a relationship as well, and add this with an Aquarius Moon? She needs to be 100% convinced that this relationship is good for HER. Sure, you could do “theatrics” but she will ultimately be in charge of making up her own mind. 

The best way to make her feel loved is by being direct, honest, and to the point. Why? Because it’s all you can do and it will catch her off guard. Now, unless you have told her already, you should realize, that if you truly love her, and you can’t envision being without her or being with another person, then what’s the harm in trying to romance her? I can’t say she will go for it, she might not even like it, but would you feel settled in yourself knowing you did everything you could to make sure that she KNEW? 

I know this is difficult for you, but isn’t love supposed to inspire us, make us grow, and let us step outside of our comfort zones? If you love her, find out the BEST way to connect to her, and do it! 

Sometimes, the most awkward and against-the-odds risks can take you to the most memorable, fulfilling and long-lasting rewards. 

You can do it, love

xoxo

Anonymous Asked: Hi! I recently started following you and you have an excellent blog. you give out like accurate advice! So I was wondering, I'm a Cancer/sun, Aquarius/moon, Libra/rising, Leo/venus, Leo/mercury, and Libra/mars. What are possible matches? I like this Aries/sun with Cancer/moon. I'm afraid that my cancer sign would interfere with his sun sign and im not sure :/

Hi deary! Aw, thank you :)

There are a lot of compatible aspects between you two with the info you gave me! One of the main aspects is his Moon in your Sun! That’s great for understanding one another, emotional and physical attraction, and a good sign to build a long-term relationship. You have a rather large Air and Fire influence on your chart that makes you compatible as you find each other exciting, adventurous, and up for anything. You will most likely share many interests and be really drawn to each other. The chemistry is high, but you also have distinct differences too! The differences can cause small arguments and misunderstandings, but overall, you can learn from each other and find comfort in one another. 

Good luck!

Anonymous Asked: I'm a male cancer, and i'm in a long distance relationship with an Aries. Our relationship was going wonderful at first, but recently we have a few arguments and my trust towards her has started to vanish. Holding a conversation with her seams difficult now, do you have any suggestions?

Well, it’s going to be very hard indeed because for one thing, long-distance is ALREADY quite difficult, and I can guarantee that you will not be able to ignore what has already happened to cause your trust to fade—this is such a key needed in relationships, but for Cancer, it will be a full time job to try and forgive her of that. 

I would suggest taking a little time and make a firm decision on where you see the relationship going. Doing the in-between thing during a long distance relationship only makes things more tough, so it’s best you understand what you want, and if you want her to be part of that equation. When you decide, be open and calm when explaining this to her. 

Clear and honest is the best way to go, especially since you can’t see each other whenever you want to. 

I hope this provides some insight, love

xoxo